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Forgiveness is the most powerful healing force of the universe and is the gateway to freedom. For only forgiving others and yourself can feel free inside.
Love Forgiveness comes from, so you can only forgive you if you love yourself. And after you've forgiven, feel a deeper love, Love will have expanded. Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give yourself.
Sometimes we have some resistance to forgive. We think that if we forgive, or forgive someone, we will be glossing over what happened.
But in reality it is not so forgiving oneself or the other did. This is why forgiving act a certain way.
If truly open your heart to someone, for example, and that person will cheat and betray you, you may have trouble forgiving, because your mind will tell you what he has done is unfair and cruel. Unforgivable. Ultimately you will deliver the best of you, and truly loved him.
But if you express anger or deep pain that may feel, and then meditate on all the lessons that experience brings and integrates, forgiveness will come in an easy, effortless.
not forgive the betrayal in itself, but the reasons that led you to that person to act in this way. Perhaps it was the fear of being vulnerable and really open. Or maybe the person did not feel worthy of your love, for he was guilty of "errors" past, or simply did not love herself enough. Then you can put in place, you understand their limitations, and forgive him for those reasons it becomes easier. The person was simply scared and hurt.
Then keep in your memory and heart all those beautiful and magical moments shared, and everything else will fall into oblivion for himself.
you will also realizing that others are just your mirror. And when the other acts in a way that hurts you in any way, you are showing, even without being conscious, something you should heal yourself.
Another strength to forgive comes from the fear that in doing so, a look obliged to reconcile with the other. But this is not necessary if you feel it, or is not right for you and your growth.
Remember that the role of forgiveness is liberated. You forgive and forgive the other to regain the freedom of your soul. And because of that forgiveness does not entail any obligation to others.
is important to realize that forgiveness is given from a position of superiority. If you think this way, you will have strength to forgive, because you feel uncomfortable or inadequate. Or enter a subtle power struggle, which is exactly the opposite of what forgiveness brings.
... Instead of asking forgiveness of someone is much more safe and effective feel regret, not guilt, and tell the other in a way sincere and deep: "Sorry, sorry."
Thus both remain in a position of equality, and can share the pain and grief felt for what happened. Then they can forgive and forgive in a humane, natural and open. And in the process deepens the love and forgiveness really frees them both.
often easier for us to forgive others than ourselves.
If you who cheated and betrayed the other, for example, forgive yourself you may find it difficult. You know you have deeply hurt someone who had an open and trusting in you, and you may think you've been a coward and has acted in a cruel way.
The voices of society or religion haunt you, "the voice of the judge in all of us," telling you that you deserve punishment. And you begin to punish yourself unconsciously, in various ways: you have an accident, you begin to use drugs or drink alcohol, get involved in another relationship that is destructive, you lose your job, etc.
But if you stop in time, before entering this dynamic crushing, and express the pain that makes you realize what you've done, forgiving yourself is already underway.
responsible do you express what you feel alone. Then meditate on the reasons that led you to act that way, and I forgive them, forgive you for the reasons that led you to cause pain in the other. And you learn the lessons, and digest and integrate, to avoid re-do the same next time someone you really open.
For if you do not learn these lessons thoroughly, you will have an infinity of relations, for example, but sooner or later will act the same way with all of them.
And then forgive will become more difficult as you will accumulate in your personal history a long series of betrayals, and possibly fall into self-destructive patterns, or fall into the denial of Love, love will not let you not really love anyone ever, which will make your life lacks a true sense.
... Remember that without forgiveness there can be love, or for others or for yourself. Forgiveness is the greatest liberating force that exists throughout the universe. To forgive and forgive the other, both are released. Already free either to continue the relationship but in a new way, or that everyone can follow their own paths.
You always forgive you deserve, no matter what you've done or has happened. Forgiveness leads you to true love, unconditional love, the eternal and infinite love.
Excerpts from the book "The love of your life," Harriet Olivari - Shantidasi
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