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The qualities of the human being (1 / 2)

"Pleasure is the wheel of life" Wilhelm Reich

The ideas that we

is well known that to create a structure first thing is to look well at the base, this should be solid, our modern society and ancient have been characterized by ignore in our species: the care of souls, then do exactly the opposite. problems of our society are the exact type of work treatment we inflicted on our fellow creatures

One of the ideas more repanda on the characteristics of human beings is that "we are evil by nature", this idea is hosted very heavily on the collective unconscious, perhaps supported by so many cultural and traditional institutions that strengthen this concept and also looking around or back century after century until the foundations of our civilization (A) , which demonstrates the human ia violenc therefore we as valid this belief of evil in human nature.

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the idea that "it is necessary to correct or discipline" beaten, humiliated, on the idea the superiority of the strongest, that adults are "better" or "know more" than the creatures on the idea that parents are "owners" of their children, in the idea to decide the "best" for their children , they must "prepare for success" (B) are justified and abuse consciously or unconsciously to the beings that says "are what most want." Not realizing that all are victims to some extent, repeated the pattern, as it influences our behavior, our own psychological strengths and our philosophies of life, supported by the cultural pressure of the environment where we grow, to other, protected by the unconscious acceptance the bad of human nature and linked to ignorance about the qualities and the biological needs of the creatures.

Child Abuse

Just put the search "child abuse" in network, in several languages \u200b\u200bto realize that violence and mistreatment of the creatures is something abrumadory bleak at the global level. Reference 9 out of 10 children in America are abused physically, October 8 in Europe, in France 67% of men parents are in favor of corporal punishment, apply to other countries is possible that this figure is equal to or greater especially in Latin America by the prevailing machismo). here I dare to make that the emotional and psychological abuse is 100% at the global level, as even those who say "treated well" their children have no idea what the true biological and emotional needs creatures and even knowing and recognizing them, we need the c onstante daily struggle to avoid being crushed by our own psychological defense mechanisms they do repeat the wrong patterns of abuse that we inflict even when we were creatures, for "all" have these mechanisms as we were socialized in this culture repressor of the vital functions of the human being .

The fact hit or mistreat creatures to "correct" only shows that a conflict is resolved by violence and that can hit harder the weakest , well after so much abuse learn to develop their indifference it does not matter what you do know that soon they will fall another beating. Examples of abuse overflow, some have even become part of some cultures supported by traditional philosophies of life (C) .

are many causes of mistreatment of the creatures, but mostly this is given by the ignorance of parents or adults, in addition to this physical, psychological and emotional occurs in all cultures and all walks of set by the monetary economic system.

One way very repanda abuse is unconscious psychological, emotional , precisely because of our ignorance of what are the real biological and emotional needs of our creatures , Nils Bergman in the documentary Restoring the Original Paradigm scientifically proven and newborn the "separable from the mother and the level of cortisol in the brain rises very unusual, the mothers come near to this level falls and heart rate, imagine what happens with this These heart rate and cortisol levels when the separation time of the creatures from their mothers is extended eg when they have to be in daycare , while their mothers work, it is necessary to emphasize that the brain is forming small and that these high levels of cortisol such as hippocampal damage memory manager (D) .

The child at birth in a delivery suffers a violent collision at psychosomatic (physical and mental) , happening of the state of tranquility, peace in the womb to an entirely different, then is separated from the mother and suffers separation from his symbiote with high levels of cortisol acting in his little developing brain, then instead of feeling the warm breast feels cold and strange piece of plastic that serves to feed and comfort him, passes time and as if their suffering was not enough, instead of being transported attached to the maternal body, listen to your heartbeat and feel the body that gives warmth and security, is transported in a stroller cold (bad thing for not knowing the benefits of holding the baby ), which only soothes the needs of the adult and the child no , the abuse continues, during the endless hours night or day, should stay away from his mother in a cot or bed cold it away from what most want and need, the mother's body warm, these beats that you can rely on are not, in exchange mother receives a doll for comfort as well as a plastic pacifier must stand and use every means that nature gave him to say he is in danger that something is wrong, their cries, and cries , but it seems not your armor (or uninformed) mother having a comfortable place to sleep alone or with someone, you may get it too but not listen to what their desires dictate which is the stand beside her child . Time passes and the pain continues or worsens, it is now abandoned, is what he feels, in an institution that addresses the need adult: the day care or nursery school (now poorly justified by many arguing that it is to "socialize "as if the man suffered from the innate quality) there is in the care of strangers where other creatures scream and cry also his eyes sad, desperate and bloodshot eyes, s uplicando not abandoned there, they pass these three stages: Protest, despair and indifference , eventually submitted and are put in survival mode, and develop the opposite of trust, l to distrust and indifference , as beings who are supposed to love them are those who leave, only an hour is an eternity for a child away from his mother .

As if that were not enough all these sufferings are added the abuse of food, cleanliness, clutter, and schedules for all-desiquilibrando her biological clock- by punishments, etc.

is a sad reality that society is structured according to the needs of adults and not according to the vital needs of creatures, called the development and growth of women is on par with neglect and abuse of the biological needs of the creatures, as no growth can justify a particular social and technological development and the Needy trampling vital primary basic structure: the symbiotic mother-child .

Many great men and women have worked on this issue of the basic structure of our society, some still do, I will cite a few: Wilhelm Reich, Françoise Dolto, Alice Miller, Casilda Rodrigáñez, Michel Odent, James Prescott, Elliott Barker, Jane Hunt and others no less important, committed to defending the human creature.

Here I highlight the work of this great Canadian psychoanalyst Elliott Barker who published the course " The Art of Parenting "youth-oriented parents, is free on the net, after reading make you feel uncomfortable more than one parent.

I would also highlight the works of Casilda Rodrigáñez, especially The Suppression of maternal desire and the genesis of the unconscious state of submission "work that will shake more than one, will feeling miserable and / or revolutionary, compulsory work for all mothers who wish to approach the real mother , a work which he describes clearly what the " revolution" of mothers .

The qualities of the human creature

For Casilda Rodrigáñez

Excerpt from " Sexuality and performance of dominance "

Stettbach Konrad (1) ensures that the human creature to be born just want to love and be loved. The child is born confident, is one of its original qualities: absolute confidence for living dissolved in the environment, floating in the mother and letting habitat pour from every pore. This is the basic desire genuine human primary before losing the innocence and initiate social distortion, the vital desire to live under all the armor, on the whole armor psychosomatic. What we know and what perceive when we leave on the outside and inside, when we crossed the entire personality (ego) that we built and we reached the bottom, to psychosomatic origin of our being, our pulses alive, says Gabriela Mistral.

human creatures in our primary integrity, do not know the strength or containment of our drives . We only know the state of floating in the uterine matrix, the state of relaxation and absolute trust in the environment, a neuromuscular relaxation is correlated to mood of confidence. Stettbach also states that still retain the body wisdom that considers everything looks good and gives us pleasure and comfort, he considers bad and try to avoid everything that causes damage, inconvenience and discomfort. This means that we still have knowledge subsequently banned, and internal transparency largely lose, to know what is good and what is bad. What Kropotkin ( 2) called general route of the organic world : seek pleasure and avoid pain, body guided by our instincts.

The Taboo Sex, by prohibiting the spontaneous expression of our impulses, removes this 'guide', and so are the standards, methods, laws, prepared artificially by the various institutions and authorities which are tactically in our guides.

The question of the innate goodness of human creatures has been the subject of universal controversy, controversy that Freud, not face the social order of our civilization, it leads to far as to say the existence of innate thanatos qualify as human creatures polymorphic perverse. If we are bad, either which is our original sin, repression is justified, but if we are good, then ill be that we repress. Therefore, at the end of every speech, we find this same controversy.

The innate thanatos, karma, original sin,,,, are, in short, speeches blaming the victim, who is the most universal feature of the relations of domination . Our flesh is pulsatile, and therefore evil, and are guilty of being made of this organic matter, so we have to practice the sublime, self-control and education Non-emotional develop our capacity for orgasm.

Women who have given birth to a minimum internal connection with our bodily instincts, we know that the creatures at birth are good, appealing to all the good in us and in us. No speech or argument to this deep certainty. The desire to mother have a wisdom deeply subversive and revolutionary organic, which reveals all the lies and cultural artifacts set for it.

One of the original sins more classical atriuidos the human creature is that we are selfish, we are born selfish, our libido is selfish (narcissistic say), even our genes are selfish, in short, that the ego-ism is our innate quality. And this innate selfishness would follow the innate desire to hoard and to make boots by fratricidal strife. War has always been telling us (lie) is in the nature of man because man is a wolf to man, etc, etc. and therefore the law must contain the evil mediate innate and keep us eat each other.

bioanthropological 's work traces the origins Maximo Sandin This creeencia popular. In his book Thinking evolution life thinking, scientific and historically well documented, explained and from the nineteenth century biology has built biased to set the selfishness and competition as the supreme law of nature (3)

For his part, after ciencuenta years working in the field of psychoanalysis, Balint Michel (4) ensures that human beings are not born selfish, but deeply in love and loving. He says the two primary love is the universal trait of human beings at birth, shattering the Freudian theories of narcissism or primary selfishness. According to this author born with a load of very strong libido, in a state of interdependence libidinal itself a kind of love específcio, symbiotic love. This intense love is also, in addition to the empirical testing of many mothers, a physiological hormonal testing, among many other (5)

symbiotic creature during exterogestación (6) living under maternal desire, holding the state of primary innocence, trust in the environment, relaxed living, do not retain their impulses, and abandons them: and all her small body live in a state of bliss.

The confidence in the environment is necessary for relaxation and to abandon the desire, this trust is maintained while the child does not have a repeated experience of separation from the mother and emotional abandonment. Confidence in the environment is a requirement of being and is an innate quality of human being itself the state of original innocence and integrity.

This is a very important point where they kill the qualities of the human creature, because when he loses confidence in the environment, they begin to contain their impulses, to retract and shrink, producing tension and stiffness, beginning to lose transparency, internal flow and spillage.

Trust presupposes reciprocity . If the desire to love and be loved is the quality of human social relations. One of the things that surprised Colo Bartolomé de las Casas and the customs of the Araucanian people of the Caribbean, was the hospitality lavished on them and reciprocity expected of them indigenous. Here no one gives anything or expecting anything. They gave it everything and expect to receive everything. The outpouring of libido involves trust and reciprocity . This proves that the pre-Columbian Caribbean population was socialized as innate human qualities.

Another thing that surprised them was the innocence and naivete they found in those nations. From their point of view and children's features were a bit silly people. This also happens to good people is considered dumb people because he has not learned to let go of their own innate qualities, and take up arms competition and fratricide. A good people is called 'stupid' because they have 'intelligence' fratricide. Bachofen (7) also stresses the hospitality as one of the basic features of matristic (8) .

Between trust and reciprocity are the outpouring and the gratitude. Derramamaiento produces confidence, shedding received produces a deep and sincere feeling of gratitude and recognition of the love of otr @, which quickly turns into shedding their own, and it works reciprocity. The deep and sincere gratitude is a feeling that emerges viscerally as pleasure, resulting in the actual physical wellbeing while fraternal relationships in social regulation.

reciprocity presupposes confidence because if it stops working reciprocity, trust retracts, began to cut and change the 'chip' (in fact, as we shall see, we change the neurological program that regulates our basic metabolism), that is, let's change the attitude of giving spill and the environment spontaneously, for a given withdrawal or shrinkage, and an attitude of alertness and tension.

This is how you will install the double resistance: resistance to the inside (what you want out) and to the outside (which hurts us.) So we have two ways to live: on the one hand, a way to survive in the withdrawal and the shrinkage of the inborn qualities and, secondly, a way of life of leakage, expansion and harmonious integration in the environment. E Chapter 3 of this book, see the neurological programs that regulate the ways of living or surviving, and psychosomatic change involves changing from one to another, and in particular the formation of the shells.

Notes:

(A) The foundations of civilization is the story they tell us they do not include that part of history matristic , Eden, or the golden age, where there was no violence and the nucleus of society was not the triangle as is familiar today, but the duo the symbiotic mother-child couples .

(B) recommend watching this documentary Olympic dreams, to understand the idea of \u200b\u200bsuccess that our culture produces.

(C) Michel Odent says that the Spartans to have strong children and "warriors" needed tossing the newborn babies, the survivors were good warriors. Another example is heartbreaking to see this predatory practice circumcision, still persists in societies such "civilized." I recommend not see the video circumcision if it is a sensitive person. To this the wise philosophies Reich called killer.

(D) To hear more on how the brain is damaged creatures recommend reading this chapter Brain during The Art of Parenting and see this documentary The baby's brain.

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(1) KONRAD Stettbach. Pourquoi la souffrance?, Aubier, Paris 1991

(2) Peter Kropotkin, Anarchism , his philosophy, his ideal in Brochures revolutionary II, Tusquets, Barcelona 1977.

(3) The construction of the biology in the twentieth century begins with the creation of the myth of Darwin, which is established in the collective imagination as the creator of the theory of evolution that liberated humanity of the biblical explanation of the origin of man and natural diversity. In reality, the evolution took more than half a century discussed by the scientific community when Darwin published his ideas, which are nothing more than the English translation of economic liberalism in the interpretation of the natural world, and still skewing contin''uan the practice of routine biological research. The so-called "Synthetic Theory" neo-Darwinian (generated in the 30 and 40) still remains as the official explanation of the mechanism of evolution of species, although experimental data accumulated in recent decades of research in many fields of biology has been left completely outdated. MAXIMUM

Sandin, Thinking Evolution life thinking, Crimentales editions, Murcia, 2006.

(4) MICHEL BALINT, the basic fault, Polity Press, Barcelona 1993. The 1st publication, London and New York 1979.

(5) Michel Odent, The baby is a mammal , Mandal, Madrid 1990; The Love scientification , p. 12, Ed.Creavida Argentina 1999. Moreover, in 1992 published a book of 500 pages collecting various studies on the hormone oxytocin PEDERCEN CA ET AL ' Oxytocin in maternal, sexual and social Behaviours , Annals of New York Academy of Sciences, 1992, 6527. NEWTON NILES summed it up by saying that oxytocin is the 'love hormone', and since then so it is known.

(6) The concept of external pregnancy refers to the first year after birth than the human species is biologically a gestation period, as the human baby is born before time.

(7) John Jacob Bachofen (1861) Mythology Archaic Mother yDerecho , Anthropos, Barcelona 1988.

(8) The concept of 'matrística'ha been generally accepted since it was proposed by Ernest Borneman ( Le patriarcat , PUF, Paris 1975), to refer to human civilizations pre-patriarchal, cutting through the controversial issue of various translations, as misleading as "matriarcado'o 'realm of mothers." and other interpretacions of Bachofen's Das Mutterrecht . For my part, I think it is paropiado simply call 'maternal societies', a concept close to everyone.

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"MATERNAL INSTINCT OR WANT? Our

This issue is very clear to me when I read the second time the book The Suppression of maternal desire and the genesis of the unconscious state of submission "Rodrigáñez Casilda.

When I started this blog I published an article in relation to the "maternal instinct" THERE , today I reaffirm and expand the topic because it has a crucial, but correct the term "using the right language- it is not 'instinct' but 'DESIRE' on our part properly to human mothers, then MATERNAL DESIRE THERE.

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an explanation of Casilda Rodrigáñez (1) :

" I will make also a small section on the concept of 'instinct', because sometimes I have wondered what the difference between 'instinct' (eg maternal instinct) and 'desire'. I think the answer is simple: the 'instinct' is part of wisdom Organic animal world is a broad concept that encompasses many impulses related to survival, nutrition and reproduction. Human beings are also animals, a very specific, despite the redundancy, but a species of animal world, and as such can in CIRSE with all property that we 'instincts'.

With the 'desire' instead we refer specifically to the sexual drive of human beings. It is the vital human instinct, the desire for pleasure and to please (pleasure) that stems from the body with a self-regulatory function. Is the drive to develop orgasmic capacity and our love, our sexuality that is specific and is much more developed than in any other animal.

But the desire has been deleted from the scientific conceptual baggage, and as medicine in general deals with motherhood consider them part of human sexuality, when a pediatrician or a desire to encounter the maternal and recognizes that it is an organic instinct, call it "instinct", because it is the closest word that has, since the concept of emotion, as it is now detached from the libido, it is most inappropriate. "

regard to the existence of maternal desire, I find the same author also another explanation which fully developed share (2) . It is also interesting to note the warning which it relates to the EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE , a term widely used today is not really anything but the emotional behavior to fight our own body wisdom :

MATERNAL DESIRE TO BE THERE AND SAY

For Casilda Rodrigáñez

About the idea to 'raise the heart', I thought no, it is not worth the argument that things must be said slowly.

maternal desire is a sexual drive, and there is, nevertheless, in our battleships and disconnected bodies, but only can, but just melt and pierce our armor, and you barely get to the neocortex. Repressed, inhibited and maligned, yet, is the hope of humanity .

As Michel Odent said in a recent interview, the question is not what happens to this or that particular child; the question is whether humanity can survive if they become unnecessary hormones love ... what degree of automation of the bodies can withstand our kind and what degree of automation achieve if castrates its basic thrust.

maternal desire is the sexual drive that guides and governs motherhood. This is the truth of motherhood is not known or is not said . After three generations of hospital births and artificial feeding, the consequences are so disastrous in terms of mental illness and psychological (depression, suicide), and in terms of child and social violence, and are so obvious that people start to become questions, seek explanations and relate things. And what you see if you encounter the truth! Especially since there are many things that are 'singing', such as neurology and neonatal clinical practice, and are confirming what we already knew from other fields of science (History, archeology, anthropology, sociology, sexology, etc.).

The impulse of desire in general, is an experience that still many humans have known and know it exists. And also the maternal desire is an experience we have lived many, perhaps, I hope, enough women.

This experience provides the knowledge that lovemaking techniques are secondary issues, and essence of sexuality and human orgastic capacity, is the desire . Referring to sexual intercourse, which is the best known, I think everyone knows that you can practice the 400 positions of the kamasutra, and not even graze the experience of a spontaneous relationship driven by desire. The positions themselves do not we melt inside or produce flows. Just do as far as they help to induction or production of desire. The desire for himself, before leading us to any position, only to arise, we melts and liquefies us.

The sense of smell, so important in the induction of desire (remember the famous story Napoleon and Josephine), guides the movements of newborn babies to carry the mother's nipple . Just the standard refrain from violation of their bodies that is practiced in hospitals, and respect their impulses. Bergman says that explain and make the mother or nurse put the baby in the proper position to begin nursing, it is worse ( Restoring the original paradigm) (3) .

The tecnosexología who once denounced and Merelo-Barbera, now applies to motherhood, without even talking about maternal sexuality. So the positions are recommended to breastfeed, skin to skin contact, non-physical separation ... patterns that surely needed in our world of medicalized motherhood, but when proposing without saying essentially, desire, still leaving the field for the automation of motherhood . Inhibited

the drive of desire, then it is only 'educate' and conveniently drive the behaviors, attitudes, feelings and emotions. In my last book I tried to explain emotional behaviorism is practiced today, as an alternative to anxiety producing emotions uprooted from the drives, and to fit in our cultural habits and social .

treaties in neurology ( Kahle, University of Frankfurt) explains that emotions and feelings are produced to help guide and implement the development of drives. The instincts of alert situations and defense, such as anger, rage, anger, etc., In fact we know and name through the accompanying feelings, but also know other aspects of its physiology, such as increased rate and blood pressure, sweating, muscle tension, goose bumps, hair standing on end, knot in the stomach, adrenaline and cortisol, etc. The sexual instincts of the normal state of relaxation, also present with loving feelings and emotions. All the feelings and emotions are part of the drives that animate the body, and to keep alive. But our society relations of domination is not about keeping the bodies in their full vitality, but on the contrary .

Educating the emotions, if not because it is actually a perverse political strategy, it would be something so ridiculous as to raise red blood cells or any cell of our body or . There is no emotion to educate: they know more than any psychologist l @ s @ s @ s of the world combined, and are also for us, for our self and our welfare . emotional education covers a strategy of regulation and 'normalization' of behaviors, and builds, obviously, a big lie on the human body, is the psychology of the bodies that automatically inhibit their impulses, the psychology of cutting and Body decomposition in the service of political domination and submission invisible unconscious.

Today, the sex drive has disappeared from our conceptual world. If the sins of the flesh has gone nowhere. How are we to understand the emotions that poor little orphaned and destitute of the body that has produced! How not to become anxious about such a calamity! feelings and emotions that roam erratic in our bodies, disturbs us because we can not understand, we can not understand what happens to us, and we can not remedy what upsets us because we can not identify . Then come and tell us we are emotional illiterates and we must educate ourselves emotionally, and we believe it . This new psychology of emotional behavior even sometimes comes under the heading of 'bioenergy', a concept invented by Reich to refer to sexual energy as energy of life ( sexual production is vital produ ction per se. Reich, The Function of the Orgasm ), and that detracts now to become the opposite, theoretical denial of the sexual production: the psychology of the bodies libido.

Emotions are wise, as wise as the drives that keep our metabolic rate during sleep. Human bodies are not illiterate, are wise . @ S when we are connected to our instincts, our emotions and feelings also are transparent, and perceive their origin and function wise for our welfare and our self. And when emotions and feelings are clear, we can not be deceived or unconsciously submit. And, when uninhibited desire, recover the original harmony between the impulses and emotions, an important aspect of the synergistic union of all our body systems, and then it recovers all its splendor, its internal transparency and capacity force. I found references anthropological At least three people whose women could decide when they got pregnant without drugs or condoms.

timely repression of drives is not enough to make us lose the wisdom body. If the neocortex works in harmony and in favor of the limbic brain, following the occasional mishaps autoregulation recovers. So fool the neocortex is necessary to act as an inhibitor of the limbic brain, and so we have to know that the desire is there, that the sex drive is what triggers the development of our capacity orgastic and part of our physiological regulation; and especially, that guides and regulates motherhood. In the era of domination invisible, and can not directly prohibit the 'sins of the flesh' that explicitly recognizes the physical drive.

But ultimately this is very new. What is new is their appearance 'scientific' and their degree of sophistication to adapt to a society that, as predicted by the authors of the science-fiction novel, requires that people do not realize that he is being controlled and used . When I was young, it now call 'emotional literacy', is called sublimation of desire and libido . Love, but said they left the soul and not of the body, placed it in his heart. The heart beats to pump blood and is not an erogenous body, and so perhaps is a good place to relocate imaginary feelings of love once disconnected from the drives. Sacred Heart of Jesus, I trust in You "was our mantra recited while our instincts sublimábamos adolescents or the" Sacred Heart of Mary, be my salvation. ".

I love painting with its rays, it copied from pre-patriarchal societies, who painted uterus and breasts, their beats and expansive movements of the waves of pleasure. A picture is worth a thousand words, says the proverb, and a little incense and Gregorian chant, you can reach the most exquisite mystical sublimation. And if anything, the heart surrounded by a crown of thorns, joining the sublimated love and suffering.

True love does not have an epicenter in the heart, but down in the belly, where comes the desire, drive sexual. And it expands in a vertical line up, but throughout the body, like the tentacles of the octopus that surround and embrace the bellies of the pre-patriarchal pitchers.

maternal desire is the sexual instinct that guides and governs motherhood. This is the truth of motherhood is not known or is not said . The responsibility of those who know and do not say it is great because, well know, the matricide is in fact a genocide. And it's no metaphor. responsibility is as great as that of those who knew the Nazi concentration camps were death camps, and did not say .

I recently read online that he was experimenting with guinea pigs the application of artificial hormones and other substances to inhibit all or part of the imprint. Before asking the question of whether it would be only for applications in animal husbandry, every cell of my body shrank scare me, as the division of the nuclei or genetic engineering: who, what criteria, and to what point can control the application of these technologies? All this is what in a moment 'thought' cell of my body, and of course my neurons. course we're not in the time that was put bromide in the food of the prisoners or convents to inhibit the sexual appetite, now things are more sophisticated. And yes, regardless of intention, years we have been using artificial hormones in other stages of the sexual life of women, such as contraception, childbirth or menopause, at doses as calibrated and as varied as vaginal suppositories or patches, also could get to apply for the desire of mothers in breastfeeding, in addition to the tecnosexología and emotional behavior .

artificial hormones can not replace natural hormones. Natural hormones are not just a chemical: the impulses occur at a time and under certain circumstances, with a specific rhythm and cadence in interaction and in unison with other multiple and complex processes that span the entire body . Hormone pulsatility is a concept that is already in clinical trials, and there are for example, show that the effectiveness of reflex milk ejection depends on the pulsatility of oxytocin . And we also know the different action of synthetic oxytocin, vaginal or intravenous-, and oxytocin secreted naturally at birth.

The control of human sexuality has always been directly related to the need for a particular robots and handling s body. Female sexuality is a latent threat , is an ancient knowledge, even though today is veiled, it orgastic capacity of women is incompatible with the exclusive monogamous, and birth and breastfeed with and part pleasure phylogenetic qualities of our bodies . In any case, is extremely important and urgent to end the lie that affects body maternity , Know and say that maternal desire exists and what exists .

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Notes:

(1) From "Sexuality and Operation of Domination" by Casilda Rodrigáñez

(2) blog article in the Octopus and Jellyfish

(3) Restoring the Original Paradigm Nils Bergman

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At birth we come with the biological urge to immediately meet our needs-the continuation of the pleasure we knew in paradise, in the womb, however, enter into conflict because we realize that to get love , follow rules, postponing satisfaction - must submit (1) - as we begin to fear our own impulses, desires, our own needs of affection, love, affection , pleasure, for example by separating the child from the mother, the child activates the defense program and is crying maintain their vital signs and survive (2) , if the mother will hurt us, we get sad and neglect is the largest generating dor of suffering, despair and anger that a child may experience.

Following its development the human being encounters a hostile environment that in most cases is aggressive with their physical, emotional and psychological, but the human body as the most complex system of life that exists, has its own mechanisms for survival, protection, defense, therefore, to external aggression in the primal stage or during the course of human development builds its own defense mechanisms.

Here I share an excerpt from the course The Art of Parenting , which addresses this issue and will help us to identify these defense mechanisms, and therefore wrong to identify our patterns, so try not to repeat with our children these patterns acquired during our own childhood, that is to break the cycle of violence.

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of Why Bemos learn about defense mechanisms?

One way to understand ourselves and a way of becoming more aware of our behavior with our children is to know something of our defense mechanisms. If we recognize that we are using a defense mechanism to justify what we are doing with our children, it will help us see more clearly in our thoughts and feelings, this may help us not repeat the bad things that we lived when we were children. By doing this, we become more aware of our behavior with our children and also in many other relationships we have.

all use defense mechanisms to protect us from thoughts or feelings that we do not feel comfortable and that we'd rather forget. Defense mechanisms only allow unconscious thoughts or feelings expressed only indirectly in a disguised form.

mechanisms defense help us cope with unpleasant aspects of reality but too much confidence in them can cause problems .

Several defense mechanisms

Repression Repression is

preventing painful or dangerous thoughts that enter our consciousness.

Repression is unconscious, for example, many people do not remember most of his childhood, is quite common to suppress certain memories, which means somehow you can not access them. Sometimes, some very painful events are repressed for years and sometimes these facts supervene or activated as a result of any event. But in some cases these repressed memories are forever.

Some people begin to have repressed memories of childhood when they become parents, because they are in an experience similar to one experienced as children.

Suppression

Suppression is a conscious, we prevent certain painful thoughts of hurting removed from our ideas, thinking about something else. In this case, we know that a memory, an idea, a feeling comes to mind, but we do everything possible not to pay attention to it.

Sublimation

Transforming deemed unacceptable needs and ambitions into action more acceptable. In fact, sublimation is the redirection of a feeling towards a productive social activity, for example, write a poem about anger when one is angry.

This defense is actually quite useful and can be a conscious or unconscious act. Someone who feels anger really is sad or you can go to the gym and do an intensive training, which will soothe their feelings repressed.

Projection

This is attributed to others our own thoughts, feelings, impulses, etc. that are unacceptable.

For example, a jealous husband might call his wife of infidelity, but in fact the one who wanted to have an extramarital affair but he can not confront their own desires. The projection is used most often by parents and the examples are numerous, such as a mother going to say that your child cries because he is tired when in fact it is she who is tired.

Reaction Formation

To prevent the cause of anxiety and an unacceptable impulse, one could replace him with opposition over emphasized.

For example at a time when there is intense friction between a boy and his mother, everyone can become angry and exaggerate their blood samples affection and being too affectionate and very friendly. The feelings and actions that result in a formation of the reaction are often excessive. For example, a man who is addressed and an image expressed in the extreme "male" may be trying to suppress a questioning sexual orientation or homosexuality, or a person who is attracted to someone of the same sex may develop a hatred towards homosexuals.

Another example of the formation of a reaction is easily seen by observing an older child with his sister. He might want to kiss her too hard which makes mourn or squeezing too hard to embrace their parents must depart from it.

Displacement

redirection of our drive (often anger) from their real purpose (because it is too dangerous) to a safer target but innocent. The classic case is the worker frustrated that the employer can not cry, but goes home and yells at his wife, who in turn calls out to his son, who kicks his dog. Noting

children, we can very easily see this defense mechanism, the child with anger or rage by the arrival of a new baby home, takes out his anger in the classroom, or to a friend, rather than with the baby.

Rationalization Rationalization

pounds a person from the anxiety of guilt perfectly reasonable excuses for their unacceptable behavior. A father who beats his son justifies it unconsciously convince himself that he is the child's own welfare. By doing this, is removing the anxiety that may occur after this event.

This is an important defense mechanism that makes us understand why this is so often used in our society. This is only because people stay connected to the death and suffering caused by hitting the child and that these people can see through the rationalization and stop such behavior.

In another example, a parent may say that the beating he gave to his son that it hurts more to his son, as a way justify their behavior.

Denial Denial is

avoid seeing certain aspects of the life of a person not to make her feel uncomfortable, inferior, inadequate, or indifferent. The refusal may be conscious or unconscious, by which a person really can not "see" the truth.

For example, many people have described the denial of the alcoholic family as a family living with an elephant in the room but not see it. Avoided saying that a problem exists. Similarly, the alcoholic often used the defense mechanism of denial, showing as being unable to understand who is drinking excessively. Even when the confrontation with the family they may be unable to accept the reality of his alcoholism.

Hostility

A person can use the hostility to insist and to convince the other person he or she is right, not lies or is innocent. For example, a parent can show their point of view, shouting at his wife and children saying that is the one who is right, he knows what is best. Using the hostility or other things of this kind as threatening to stop the conversation, he feels he has won.

Fun

is a tactic used to avoid the feelings created by an argument or a particular topic or to divert attention and not focus on the problem, this can be done consciously or unconsciously.

For example, a child might tell his mother, "Why are you so hard on myself when others are also involved? I did not hear them shouted at them "or, in another example, when a teenager was confronted about the vandalism at school, she changed the topic" I do well in school. " Other fun tactics include putting an abrupt end to the conversation, ask to go to the bathroom, or even to speak of the temperature.

Minimization

A person uses minimization to see that your problem is not as big as it really is. The person who minimizes often do not tend to learn from experiences or behaviors. By minimizing the impact of particular situations, the person can maintain the denial, it never completely accepts the severity of their actions.

For example, parents who are asked about their methods of discipline that could only beat their children "very gently back." Or parents they are confronted with their adult children about abusive incidents in their childhood may respond by minimizing and say, "Oh, that was not so bad, you survived and you turned out very cute. Never did really hurt. "

The advantages of recognizing our defense mechanisms

know the problems caused by defense mechanisms

It is as if each of us recognize when use defense mechanisms. We can not detect it every time, but being familiar with the common defense mechanisms can understand best use we give to these defense mechanisms and to be honest with ourselves .

defense mechanisms keep us hidden from ourselves and other .

Suggestions on how to act

increase our awareness of what we are feeling, as well as allow others to see that we are feeling much practical application. P in order to increase our awareness, we need to become familiar with our particular patterns of thought, much as our bodies. This is because our body often gives us clues about what we are feeling .

As you practice your knowledge of their particular patterns of defense, could begin to see what effect has his style of defense in all relationships. To do this, you might first describe a situation in which you used a defense mechanism. Look inside and describe how it felt at once.

• Was annoying?
• Were you sad?
• Were you feeling uncomfortable?
• What defenses were using?
• How are you blocking defenses will learn from this experience?
• How this affects the (s) of person (s) involved?
• Does that frustrated him, gave him angry or feel cheated?
• Does that prevented the situation is resolved?

When you think about all this now, which thinks to do to speak honestly from the heart, to remove the blocks of the defense keeping him away from your feelings?

A life plan

now ending this section, is on track to improve parenting skills. You enter with much more confidence in your relationship with your child, with a new understanding and more open to new learning. As you begin your journey to a new life of mother, father, realizes that the questions to which you responded can be asked again and again as your relationship with your child grows. Continuing his work of parents, continue to seek other sources that may help in their own development, there are support groups for parents, books, magazines and Internet websites are all avenues designed to increase your own discovery of yourself as you help your child to discover his own self.

Source: Course Art of Parenting

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Notes:

(1) - Michel Odent in "End of the murder of Christ," referring to how you create the submission by quoting part of the work of Henri Laborit in "L'inhibition de l'action": "... when the behavior occurs fight or flight from an attack, the system, which in this case starts is the "periventricular system", to that extent the "inhibition of action" is a basic behavioral pattern: is the representation of happens when an attack is impossible to respond either by fighting or by fleeing. It is therefore submissive behavior ... .... ".

- I recommend reading this book repression of maternal desire and the genesis of the state of submission unconscious "Casilda Rodrigáñez to understand fully how to create the submission to be unconscious human.

(2) The documentary Restoring the Original Paradigm Nils Bergman makes clear: when the baby is away from his mother, the baby is put into SURVIVAL.

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